There’s a guy on a sub who does “you’re not entitled to your own facts” on runaway hate-spiral threads, and it’s fascinating to watch because it is shockingly well received. He provides a sort of quantitative “I counted how many times …” analysis in his pushback. I’m always braced for “quit sealioning” or whatever, but he usually just gets a quick “ok, fair,” I think because he is very consistent about it.
I have become very resigned to people just going around with their own facts, so I guess I’m glad to see a community where people can hear that they’re doing that and suck it back in.